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Sayings on learning, friends and family

Written
about 400 BCE (sayings of Confucius, who died in 479 BCE, collected after his death)
Place
State of Lu
Language
Classical Chinese
Kind of source
literature
Reading time
11 minutes
Difficulty
Moderate
Intensity
Low: nothing violent or distressing

Philosophy and right livingSchools and teachingFamily and loss

Versions

The edited translation, in simplified modern English. Bracketed words were added for clarity; [...] marks a cut. Tap a note number to read the note. Point at or tap a phrase to see the original behind it. Phrase links checked in a separate review.

Book 1: *Xue er* 學而, “Learning”

1.1The Master said: To learn and practice it at the right times, isn’t that a pleasure? To have a friend come from far away, isn’t that a joy? To go unrecognized by others and feel no resentment, isn’t that the mark of a gentleman?1

1.3The Master said: Clever words and a smooth face seldom go with goodness.2

1.4Master Zeng said:3 Each day I examine myself on three points: Have I been disloyal when making plans for others? Have I been untrustworthy in dealing with friends? Have I failed to review what was handed down to me?4

1.6The Master said: Young people should show filial duty at home and respect for elders outside it,5 be careful and trustworthy, love people widely and keep close to the good. If they have strength left over, let them spend it on culture.6

1.8The Master said: A gentleman who is not serious will not be respected, and his learning will not hold firm.7 Put loyalty and good faith first. Have no friend who is not your equal. When you make a mistake, do not be afraid to fix it.

1.14The Master said: A gentleman does not look for a full stomach or a comfortable home, is quick in his work and careful in his speech, and goes to those who have the Way to be set straight.8 Such a man can be called eager to learn.

1.16The Master said: Do not worry that others do not know you; worry that you do not know others.

Book 2: *Wei zheng* 為政, “Governing”

2.1The Master said: One who governs by virtue9 is like the North Star,10 which stays in its place while all the stars turn toward it.

2.2The Master said: The Odes number three hundred,11 yet one saying can cover them all. It is this: No crooked thoughts.

2.8Zixia asked about filial duty.12 The Master said: The hard part is the look on your face.13 When there is work, the young people do it; when there is food and drink, the elders are served. Is that all it takes to be called filial?

2.11The Master said: One who reviews the old and so learns the new is fit to be a teacher.

2.12The Master said: A gentleman is not a vessel.14

2.13Zigong asked about the gentleman.15 The Master said: He first carries out what he says, and only then speaks in line with it.

2.14The Master said: A gentleman is broad in sympathy and does not take sides; a petty person takes sides and is not broad.16

2.15The Master said: Learning without thinking leaves a person lost; thinking without learning leaves a person in danger.

2.17The Master said: You,17 shall I teach you what knowing is? To know a thing is to know it; not to know it is to say you do not know; that is what it is to know.

2.22The Master said: A person without good faith is of no use that I can see. A big cart without its yoke-bar,18 a small cart without its yoke-bar, how could either move?

Book 4: *Li ren* 里仁, “Living in goodness”

4.1The Master said: It is fine to live where goodness is. If you choose a home without goodness, how can you call yourself wise?

4.3The Master said: Only a good person can love others and dislike them.

4.10The Master said: In dealing with the world, a gentleman is not set for anything or against anything; he goes along with what is right.

4.11The Master said: A gentleman thinks of virtue; a petty person thinks of home comforts.19 A gentleman thinks of the law; a petty person thinks of favors.

4.12The Master said: A person who acts by what pays will be much resented.

4.14The Master said: Do not worry about having no position; worry about what you need to hold one. Do not worry that no one knows you; seek to be worth knowing.

4.16The Master said: A gentleman understands what is right; a petty person understands what pays.

4.17The Master said: When you see a worthy person, think of becoming his equal; when you see an unworthy one, look inward and examine yourself.

4.19The Master said: While your parents are alive, do not travel far; if you do travel, have a set destination.

4.21The Master said: The age of your parents must always be known: on one side it is a reason for gladness, on the other a reason for fear.

4.22The Master said: The people of old kept their words back, ashamed that their own actions might fall short.

4.23The Master said: By keeping within limits, those who go wrong are few.

4.24The Master said: A gentleman wants to be slow to speak and quick to act.

4.25The Master said: Virtue is never alone; it always has neighbors.

4.26Ziyou said:20 In serving a ruler, to press him again and again21 brings disgrace; with friends, to press them again and again brings distance.

Book 5: *Gongye Chang* 公冶長, named for a disciple

5.11Zigong said: What I do not want others to do to me, I likewise want to avoid doing to them. The Master said: Ci, that is beyond your reach.

5.12Zigong said: What the Master shows of his learning and manners we are able to hear; but what he says about human nature and the course of Heaven22 we are not able to hear.

5.15The Master spoke of Zichan:23 he had four of the gentleman’s ways. In his own conduct he was courteous; in serving his superiors, respectful; in caring for the people, kind; in employing the people, just.

5.16The Master said: Yan Pingzhong24 was good at friendship; even after a long time he still treated them with respect.

5.19Ji Wenzi thought three times before he acted.25 The Master heard of it and said: Twice is enough.

5.26The Master said: I give up! I have yet to see anyone who can see his own faults and bring the charge against himself inwardly.

5.27The Master said: In a town of ten households there are sure to be people as loyal and trustworthy as I am,26 but none who love learning as I do.

Book 7: *Shu er* 述而, “Passing on”

7.1The Master said: I pass things on and do not make them up; I trust the ancient ways and love them. In this I would quietly set myself beside our Lao Peng.27

7.2The Master said: To take things in silently and remember them, to study and not tire of it, to teach others and not grow weary: which of these do I have?28

7.3The Master said: Virtue not cultivated, learning not discussed, hearing what is right and being unable to move toward it, knowing what is wrong and being unable to change it: these are what trouble me.

7.4When the Master was at ease at home, he was relaxed and unhurried and cheerful in look.

7.6The Master said: Set your heart on the Way. Rely on virtue. Lean on goodness. Move freely among the arts.29

7.7The Master said: From anyone who brought a bundle of dried meat or more,30 I never refused to teach him.

7.8The Master said: I do not open the door for one who is not eager, or draw out the words of one who is not struggling to say them. If I show one corner of a subject and he cannot come back with the other three, I will not teach it again.

7.15The Master said: Coarse rice to eat, water to drink, a bent arm for a pillow: there is joy in this too. Wealth and rank got by wrong means are to me like floating clouds.

7.18The Duke of She31 asked Zilu about Confucius, and Zilu did not answer. The Master said: Why did you not say, He is the sort of man who forgets his meals when he is eager to learn, forgets his troubles in his joy, and does not notice that old age is on its way?

7.19The Master said: I was not born knowing things. I love the ancient ways and have worked hard to seek them.

7.21The Master said: Walking with two others, I am sure to find a teacher among them. I pick out their good points and follow them; I see their bad points and correct them in myself.32

7.24The Master taught four things: culture, conduct, loyalty, and good faith.

7.26The Master fished but not with a net; he used a corded arrow, but never shot at a roosting bird.33

7.31When the Master sang with others and they sang well, he always had them repeat it, and then joined in.

7.35The Master said: Extravagance makes people overbearing; thrift makes them narrow.34 Rather than be overbearing, better to be narrow.

7.36The Master said: A gentleman is calm and open; a petty person is always full of worry.

7.37The Master was gentle yet firm, dignified but not fierce, respectful yet at ease.

Book 15: *Wei Ling gong* 衛靈公, “Duke Ling of Wei”

15.3The Master said: You, those who understand virtue are few.

15.9Zigong asked how to practice goodness. The Master said: A craftsman who wants his work to go well must first sharpen his tools. When you live in a state, serve the worthiest of its high officials and befriend the good among its scholars.

15.11The Master said: A person who does not plan far ahead will have trouble close at hand.

15.12The Master said: I give up! I have never seen anyone love virtue as people love a beautiful face.

15.14The Master said: Ask much of yourself and little of others, and resentment will keep far away.

15.16The Master said: Spending all day together in a crowd, never speaking of what is right, and fond of showing off small cleverness: it is hard to know what to do with such people!

15.17The Master said: A gentleman takes rightness as his core, carries it out by ritual,35 speaks it with humility, and completes it with good faith. That is a gentleman!

15.18The Master said: A gentleman is troubled by his own lack of ability; he is not troubled that others do not know him.

15.20The Master said: A gentleman looks to himself; a petty person looks to others.

15.21The Master said: A gentleman is dignified but does not quarrel; he joins with others but forms no cliques.

15.22The Master said: A gentleman does not promote a person for his words, nor throw out words because of the person.

15.23Zigong asked, Is there one word a person can follow all his life? The Master said: Perhaps it is consideration for others:36 what you yourself do not want, do not do to others.

15.27The Master said: When the crowd dislikes a person, look into it yourself; when the crowd likes a person, look into it yourself.

15.28The Master said: A person can broaden the Way; the Way cannot broaden a person.

15.29The Master said: To make a mistake and not correct it: that is what a real mistake is.

15.35The Master said: When it comes to goodness, do not give way even to your teacher.

15.38The Master said: Teach everyone, and sort no one by class.

15.39The Master said: Those whose ways differ do not make plans together.

15.40The Master said: Words need only get the meaning across.

Book 17: *Yang Huo* 陽貨, named for a man of Lu

17.2The Master said: By nature people are close to one another; by habit they grow far apart.

17.11The Master said: Ritual, ritual, they say! Does that mean jade and silk?37 Music, music, they say! Does that mean bells and drums?

17.14The Master said: To hear something on the road and repeat it on the road is to throw virtue away.

17.19The Master said: I wish to say nothing. Zigong said: If you do not speak, Master, what will we, your pupils, have to pass on? The Master said: Does Heaven speak? The four seasons run their course; all creatures grow. Does Heaven speak?

17.22The Master said: To eat one’s fill all day and put one’s mind to nothing, what can come of that! Are there not board games?38 Even playing them is better than idling.

Notes

  1. Junzi 君子 is explained as “son of a ruler,” and in the Analects it comes to mean a person of fine character, whatever his birth, set against the “petty person.” Legge renders it “superior man.” back
  2. Ren 仁 is the highest quality of character in the Analects: a person at his best in dealing with others, kind and fully human. No single English word fits; this translation uses “goodness.” back
  3. Zeng Shen, a younger follower of Confucius, called Master Zeng (Zengzi) by later admirers. back
  4. 吾日三省吾身 can mean “each day I examine myself on three points” (Legge) or “three times a day”; this is a choice. 傳 is what a teacher handed down to him, or what he hands on. back
  5. Xiao 孝, “filial duty,” is the care and respect children owe their parents. The second word here, ti 弟, is the respect a younger brother owes his elders. back
  6. Wen 文, “culture,” covers the polite arts of an educated person: ceremony, music, archery, charioteering, writing, and arithmetic. back
  7. 固 is read two ways: “firm, solid” (Legge, so “his learning will not be solid”) or “obscured, narrow” (Kong Anguo, an early commentator). The translation follows Legge. back
  8. Dao 道, “the Way,” is the right course for a person to follow, in his own conduct and in government. back
  9. De 德, “virtue,” is the moral power of a person’s character, which draws others without force. back
  10. The North Star seemed to stay in one place while the other stars turned around it. back
  11. The Odes (Shijing) are the old collection of songs and hymns, a little over 300 poems. back
  12. Zixia, a follower of Confucius. back
  13. 色 means “look” or “face.” Readers take the point to be that serving one’s parents with a cheerful face is the hard part. back
  14. A vessel, or utensil, serves one purpose only. The gentleman is not limited so; Legge notes that he is ready for any task. back
  15. Zigong, personal name Ci 賜, a follower of Confucius. back
  16. Xiaoren 小人, “small person,” is a person of narrow, self-serving character, whatever his rank. The gentleman is his opposite. back
  17. Zilu (Zhong You), a follower of Confucius. Here Confucius calls him by his personal name, You. back
  18. Legge, following Zhu Xi, takes 輗 (ni) and 軏 (yue) as the cross-bar at the end of the cart pole, to yoke oxen to a large cart and horses to a small one. Without it the cart cannot be drawn. back
  19. 土, “soil,” is explained as the place of comfort one settles into, so Legge has “comfort.” Others read it as land held as property. Legge asks whether it means “what is earthly.” back
  20. Ziyou, a follower of Confucius. back
  21. 數 (shuò) means “again and again.” What is repeated is not stated; readers take it as urging or scolding. back
  22. Tian 天, “Heaven,” is the highest power over the world and its order, sometimes spoken of almost as a person. back
  23. Zichan, chief minister of the state of Zheng and, Legge says, perhaps the ablest and most upright statesman of Confucius’s time. back
  24. Yan Pingzhong, also called Yan Ying, was a leading minister of the state of Qi. back
  25. Ji Wenzi was an officer of Lu, known as faithful and unselfish; Wen is a title given after his death. Confucius is understood to favor prompt decision. back
  26. Qiu 丘 was Confucius’s personal name. He uses it of himself. back
  27. Who Lao Peng was is uncertain. Legge reports that some take him to be Laozi and some make two men, and that Zhu Xi, following the Li Sao, calls him a worthy of the Shang dynasty. back
  28. Another reading takes the line as “These are no trouble to me.” Legge rejects it and takes the line as modest. back
  29. The six arts are ceremonies, music, archery, charioteering, writing, and arithmetic. back
  30. A bundle of strips of dried meat, ten to a bundle, was one of the smallest gifts a pupil could bring to a teacher. Some early commentators instead took 束脩 as an age, about fifteen. back
  31. Ye, read here as She, was a district of Chu. Its governor was called gong, “duke.” back
  32. 改之 means “change them”: Confucius corrects in himself the faults he sees in others. back
  33. 綱 is the large rope on a net that could sweep a whole stream. 弋 is shooting with a cord tied to the arrow so it can be drawn back. Confucius took only what he needed, without unfair advantage. back
  34. 固 here means “mean” or “narrow” (Legge: “meanness”). Kong Anguo reads it as narrow or obscured. The point is that thrift can shrink a person. back
  35. Li 禮, “ritual,” is the proper form of ceremony and manners for each occasion. No single English word fits. back
  36. Shu 恕, translated here as “consideration,” is putting oneself in another’s place. Legge renders it “reciprocity.” back
  37. Jade and silk were gifts offered in ceremonies, and bells and drums were instruments of music. Confucius says ritual and music are more than these outward things. back
  38. 博 and 奕 are two board games. Legge could not name the first and took the second as a kind of chess. 奕 is usually identified with weiqi (Go), played on a board with 361 points. back